The 5 Main Phases Of A Twin Flame Relationship

Here’re are five main Phases of a Twin Flame Relationship.

AS WE ALL KNOW A Twin flame relationship is not all ‘perfect’, as one might expect, especially in the beginning (usually a few years)

After reading or hearing about twin-flames and their perfectly balanced energies, many people think it would be like a fairy tale, the you-find-your-twin flame-and-live-happily-ever-after kind of thing.

It is not.

It is a perfect relationship, but it needs some work from both the partners.

After having been separated from each other literally millions of years ago, both twin-flames(of all souls) went through a lot of pain and suffering… and gathered negative emotions in the process.

These take a while to get sorted. And this can be difficult at times.

But you’ll get through it…
Love will take you there…
And then the world is your canvas and you’re the painters…
Together, in love, harmony, in Eternal Bliss

There are, as I see It, Five main phases of a twin flame relationship.

Everyone understands the twin flame relationship differently… and there are no clear timelines or specific periods for any of these phases. Each differs for every twin flame couple.

I’m giving you this information so that you can understand this relationship better.
There are no rules. And there is no One-size-fits-all in a Twin Flame relationship.
Each relationship will be unique, just like each couple.

Here are the five main phases that usually resonate with all twin flames in some way.

Phase One – The Preparation

This preliminary phase occurs prior to meeting your twin flame, and although it precedes the actual union, it holds significant importance as an integral part of the twin flame relationship.

What happens in this phase –

– Karmic Relationships

Karmic relationships refer to those few deeply impactful connections that begin with intense emotions and ultimately conclude in pain and devastation.

– Emptiness and Strong desire for ‘The One’

Once you have experienced the profound lessons of Karmic relationships, a deep yearning or longing arises within you to discover “The One.”

At this stage, you eagerly desire to meet the person who perfectly matches the image you hold in your imagination, or perhaps even in your dreams. Unbeknownst to you at this point, this image represents your Twin Flame. Your soul, with its inherent wisdom, recognizes that your Twin Flame is on the horizon, even if you may not be consciously aware of it.

Phase Two – The Meeting – A Glimpse Of Heaven

This particular phase marks the initial meeting of your twin flame in this lifetime, representing a significant milestone within the twin flame relationship.

Initially, you may attempt to resist the magnetic pull between you, but inevitably, you find yourself irresistibly drawn to them. Subsequently, a brief period of what can only be described as “perfection” ensues. I fondly refer to this phase as “A Glimpse of Heaven,” as it grants you a taste of divine harmony and bliss in the presence of your twin flame.

What happens In this Phase –

– The first meeting

In the journey of meeting your twin flame, it often unfolds in unconventional circumstances or unexpected places—a setting where encountering your life partner or soulmate would not typically be anticipated. During this encounter, you will perceive this individual as uniquely remarkable, despite not initially considering them as a potential partner.

– The initial attraction

As you cross paths with your twin flame, a powerful magnetic attraction will begin to manifest. Despite any reservations or hesitations you may have, stemming from the experiences of karmic relationships, you may initially attempt to resist this alluring force. However, against your best efforts, you will inevitably succumb to the depths of love, falling profoundly and wholeheartedly for your twin flame.

– A short period of the most ‘Perfect’ relationship that you’ve ever experienced.

Following the initial attraction, you will find yourself immersed in a deeply romantic relationship with your twin flame. It will appear flawless in every conceivable way, surpassing your expectations.

This phase exemplifies the true essence of a twin flame relationship, showcasing the harmonious connection and profound fulfillment you share with your partner. You will discover that your twin flame embodies everything you desire and more.

This period serves as a glimpse into the potential perfection of your union, highlighting the latent memories and deep understanding that have always resided within you. It ignites a strong desire to progress into the next phase, even though it may present some challenges.

Consider this phase as a trailer, providing a tantalizing preview of what your relationship can become in the fourth phase, after the reunion—a testament to the incredible depth and beauty that awaits you both.

Phase three – The Dance – Resolving what is known as the Karma

This is the challenging phase that unfolds after you have been in a relationship with your twin flame for a considerable duration. During this phase of the twin flame journey, all the accumulated negativity and lower emotions rise to the surface.

Navigating through this phase may seem difficult at the human level, but in truth, it is a profoundly divine process wherein twin flames assist each other in deep cleansing. This process enables them to attain higher levels of energy, facilitating their joint ascension into blissful realms.

Simultaneously, this phase serves as a catalyst for the spiritual enlightenment of both twin flames. It is a transformative period where they actively seek and uncover the hidden truths of the spiritual reality. If you are currently in a twin flame relationship, it is highly likely that you find yourself in this phase, as it is during this period that individuals typically begin seeking information about the twin flame journey and its spiritual aspects.

What Happens in this Phase –

– Arguments / Fights

– The blame game

During this phase, each twin flame begins to witness their own negativity and inner turmoil reflected in their counterpart. Deep-seated fears, frustrations, and unresolved issues come to the surface, leading to a tendency to attribute these challenges to the actions or behaviors of the other.

As a result, a dynamic of blame and accusation may arise, with each twin flame mistakenly attributing their own struggles to the actions or perceived shortcomings of their counterpart. It becomes a period of intensified emotional and psychological challenges as both individuals grapple with their own shadows, projecting them onto the other in the process.

You consciously might not realize it but this is clearing all your clutter which is a good thing.

– The runner and the Chaser.

The persistent arguments and blame game during this phase often lead to significant confusion, primarily because the conscious mind is not accustomed to comprehending the intricacies of the spiritual process. Our conditioning often prioritizes logic over intuition and emotions, which can further exacerbate the confusion experienced in this stage.

In many twin flame relationships, one partner, typically the male, assumes the role of the “Runner.” The Runner’s response is to avoid the relationship and attempt to distance themselves from their partner. This reaction stems from a lack of conscious awareness regarding the deeper dynamics at play. They may feel a sense of losing control and be unable to fully grasp or comprehend the profound spiritual journey unfolding within the relationship.

As a defense mechanism, we instinctively construct formidable walls around ourselves. These barriers serve to shield us from potential harm and repetition of past traumatic experiences, such as abuse, abandonment, betrayal, or deprivation. Strangely enough, we are often drawn to individuals who evoke a sense of familiarity with these painful patterns, as they resonate with our unresolved wounds.

Regrettably, in childhood, it was often those we trusted the most, the ones who were most familiar, that caused us the greatest harm. Consequently, we find ourselves caught in repetitive cycles, continuously reminded that it is unsafe to trust ourselves and others.

Within the twin flame dynamic, the counterpart who assumes the role of the “Chaser” (typically the female) emerges. The Chaser possesses a higher level of spiritual awareness than the Runner, albeit perhaps on a subconscious level. They embark on a pursuit, seeking to chase or reconnect with the Runner. At this stage, the Chaser yearns for some form of commitment, driven by a deep subconscious or conscious desire to transcend this challenging phase and reunite with their twin flame.

The Chaser experiences deep shock and emotional pain when faced with the Runner’s avoidance and unexpected behavior. Consequently, they feel compelled to seek understanding and embark on a quest for knowledge through research and reading, often leading to their spiritual enlightenment.

The Runner, in turn, undergoes their own spiritual awakening. This enlightenment can occur either through the conscious efforts of the Chaser or as a result of a “Soul Shock” when the Chaser relinquishes the chase and moves away from the Runner Twin Flame.

The duration of this phase is typically prolonged by the extent to which the Runner continues to evade the connection. However, eventually, the Runner does return, and the karmic lessons find resolution. This marks the culmination of the cycle, bringing forth a profound transformation and growth for both twin flames.

Phase Four – The Reunion

This is the phase of the reunion.

This is when the split soul becomes One again.

This happens first at the level of the soul and then in the physical plane (Yes, that’s when you get married, unless, as in rare cases your physical reunion is not a part of the p

The reunion happens when both the partners are fully aware of the spiritual reality.

Phase Five – Eternal Bliss – Being LOVE

This phase represents the long-awaited “Happily Ever After” stage of the twin flame relationship.

Both twin flames have attained complete spiritual awareness and enlightenment, basking in the radiance of perfect love and harmony. They now fully embrace their sacred connection, relishing in a deep and intimate bond. Empowered by their union, they possess the ability to manifest their desires and create a reality that aligns with their highest aspirations.

The world becomes their canvas, and they joyfully paint it with the vibrant colors of love. Together, they embark on a journey of co-creation, shaping their shared experiences in alignment with their unified vision.

As their earthly journey draws to a close, the twin flames ascend together, transcending the limitations of this plane of existence. Their love and connection continue to flourish, expanding into new realms and dimensions. In other worlds, on other planets, and throughout the vast expanse of the universe, they embark on new adventures, forever intertwined in the embrace of love, joy, and profound peace.

United in eternal bliss, their love story continues to unfold, transcending the boundaries of time and space.