What to do when your twin flame lives in another country

Two years ago, I had the incredible fortune of meeting my twin flame, Jacob. It was a connection like no other, and I’ve never been more certain about anything in my life. However, we faced a significant challenge: I reside in the United States, while he resides in the Netherlands.

Navigating a long-distance twin flame relationship presents its own set of obstacles. Here’s how I’ve been handling it, along with some advice that may prove helpful if your twin flame is also far away:

1) Keep in touch with your twin flame

Jacob and I make it a point to stay connected almost every day. Our conversations are so engaging that there have been instances where I’ve found myself running late for work. While online contact can’t replace physical touch and presence, it’s certainly better than nothing.

If you find yourself in a similar situation where your twin flame lives in another country, one of the first steps is to prioritize staying in touch as much as possible. Whether it’s through video calls, texts, or emails, make an effort to maintain regular communication and keep each other updated on your lives.

However, I understand that distance can sometimes lead to feelings of loneliness and longing. In such moments, I recommend focusing on self-care and strengthening your love instinct. Take time to nurture yourself, engage in activities that bring you joy and fulfillment, and cultivate self-love. Explore practices like meditation, journaling, and personal growth to deepen your connection with yourself and your twin flame.

Remember, the physical distance is temporary, and in the meantime, you can use this period to strengthen your individual selves and your bond as twin flames. Trust in the power of your connection and the journey that lies ahead. Together, you can navigate the challenges of distance and emerge stronger and more aligned when the time is right for your reunion.

2) Tend to your own fire 

Navigating the situation when your twin flame resides in another country can be challenging and emotionally demanding.

During this time, it’s essential to focus on your own personal growth and healing. Often, the Universe keeps us physically separated from our twin flame to allow for inner resolution and self-healing. This period offers an opportunity to address any unresolved issues within ourselves.

3) Take a look at the barriers

I am a firm believer in the power of optimism and maintaining a positive outlook, especially when it comes to matters of the heart. I understand and appreciate the love you have for Jacob, as it shines through your words.

However, it is important to acknowledge the barriers and challenges that you and Jacob face in your relationship. The geographical distance and the commitments you both have in your respective lives can create complexities and make it difficult to be physically together.

Jacob’s full-time job in machine engineering in the Netherlands and your family obligations at home pose valid obstacles to uprooting your lives for the sake of being together. It’s a decision that requires careful consideration and planning.

Yet, staying apart can feel incredibly challenging, as it may leave you with a sense of longing and an emotional toll. It’s as if a part of you is yearning and experiencing a sense of loss.

In order to bridge the physical distance, you have found solace in near-daily communication, video chats, and occasional travel. These efforts to stay connected and maintain the flame of your love are commendable.

Remember to cherish and make the most of the moments you have together, whether virtually or in person. Explore creative ways to nurture your bond and create shared experiences, despite the distance. Keep an open line of communication and be willing to discuss your hopes, dreams, and plans for the future.

While the path ahead may not be easy, the love you share can help you overcome the challenges and find solutions that work for both of you. Trust in your connection and the strength of your commitment as you navigate this unique journey together.

4) Travel see each other

Both Jacob and I are grateful for the opportunities we have to travel and the flexibility in our work schedules, which allows us to spend precious moments together despite the distance.

I have been fortunate to visit Jacob twice, and he has also made the journey to see me once. These trips have been incredibly special and unforgettable, filled with moments that hold immeasurable value to us. Being in each other’s presence during these visits has provided a temporary relief to our longing for one another.

However, rather than simply satisfying our desire for closeness, these trips have ignited an even stronger yearning within us to be permanently together in the same location. The experiences we shared during these visits have deepened our connection and intensified our longing to build a life together.

While our current circumstances may present challenges, the love we share fuels our determination to find a way to bridge the physical distance and create a future where we can be united in the same place. We cherish the moments we have had and hold onto the hope of a time when we can be together permanently.

In the meantime, we continue to make the most of the opportunities to travel and spend time together, appreciating every precious moment we have. These experiences serve as reminders of what we are working towards and inspire us to keep moving forward on our journey towards a shared future.

If you find yourself in a situation where your twin flame lives in another country and relocating is not currently feasible, it’s important to explore other avenues to maintain a connection. One of these options is to make an effort to travel and visit each other whenever possible.

If the distance between you is significant, such as between Australia and the US, consider planning longer trips to maximize the time you spend together. Make the most of the opportunities you have to create meaningful memories and deepen your bond.

While physical proximity is undoubtedly desirable, it’s essential to embrace the periods of separation and acknowledge that they can also be valuable for personal growth. Use this time to focus on yourself, engage in self-reflection, and work on becoming the best version of yourself. These periods of solitude can contribute to your readiness for a harmonious union with your twin flame when the time is right.

Remember that the journey with your twin flame is not solely about physical togetherness. It is an opportunity for individual growth, self-discovery, and spiritual development. Embrace the challenges and embrace the time apart as opportunities for personal transformation.

In the meantime, maintain open and honest communication with your twin flame, expressing your desires and intentions for the future. Trust in the divine timing of your connection and have faith that, in due course, the circumstances will align, and you will be united in the same location.

5) Think about a move

When you find yourself in a situation where your twin flame lives in another country, the topic of relocation is likely to arise at some point. It’s important to approach this decision with careful consideration and avoid impulsive reactions.

As twin flames, our connection can evoke both positive and challenging emotions within us. During these moments, practicing self-care becomes essential, and finding personal growth and benefits in periods of solitude is crucial.

When discussing the possibility of a move and envisioning your future together, it’s essential to remain open-minded and receptive to your twin flame’s perspective and priorities. Remember that effective communication and understanding are key to finding a harmonious balance between your desires and their needs.

Take the time to have honest conversations, explore the practical aspects of the potential move, and consider how it aligns with both of your long-term goals and aspirations. It may be helpful to seek guidance from professionals or trusted advisors who can provide insights and support during this decision-making process.

Ultimately, finding common ground and mutual understanding will be essential in navigating the path forward. Trust in the journey and have faith that the universe will guide you towards the right choices and opportunities for your twin flame union.

6) Be willing to compromise 

In a twin-flame connection, compromise is vital for a healthy and harmonious relationship. It can be challenging to express differing viewpoints or say no when you feel deeply connected to your twin flame. However, it is crucial to prioritize open communication and ensure that any decisions, including the possibility of moving to the same country, are mutually desired.

Avoid pressuring or being pressured into making a decision that may not align with both of your true desires. If one or both of you feel compelled or forced into the decision, it can lead to tension and potential conflicts down the road, which may even result in a breakup.

During discussions about a potential move, be willing to listen to each other’s perspectives and find common ground through compromise. Consider both of your needs, aspirations, and long-term goals. Remember that a healthy relationship involves finding a balance between your individual desires and the collective vision you create together.

Take the time to honestly evaluate your feelings and ensure that the decision to move is something you genuinely want and are willing to commit to. If compromises are necessary, approach them with an open heart and willingness to find solutions that honor both of your needs.

By fostering open communication, respect, and a shared commitment to compromise, you can strengthen your twin-flame connection and build a solid foundation for a fulfilling and mutually satisfying relationship.

7) Surrender to the process

Jacob and I are currently in the midst of making a decision regarding a potential move to be together. While the outcome is uncertain, I am prioritizing self-care and cultivating trust within myself and our connection.

In situations like these, surrendering to the process can be the best approach. It’s important to acknowledge that navigating a long-distance relationship can be challenging, even when you are certain that your twin flame connection is genuine and worth pursuing.

Remember that everything takes time, including the development and evolution of twin flame connections. It is essential to be patient and allow the journey to unfold naturally. Trust that the universe is guiding you both towards the best possible outcome, even if the path may not be clear at the moment.

As you navigate the complexities of your connection and the decision-making process, take care of yourself emotionally, mentally, and physically. Nurture your well-being and engage in activities that bring you joy and fulfillment. Trust yourself and the connection you share with your twin flame.

Ultimately, the journey of twin flames is a unique and transformative experience that requires time, patience, and self-discovery. Embrace the process, remain open to the unfolding of events, and have faith in the journey ahead.

Bridging the distance

We hold a strong belief that we will eventually bridge the distance between us and be together. Jacob and I share a deep conviction that we are meant to be united, and this certainty fuels our journey.

During this phase of separation, we understand the importance of focusing on our individual growth and self-improvement. We recognize that by investing in our personal healing and development, we are creating a solid foundation for our future union.

In this process, trust plays a vital role. We trust in the Divine’s plan and timing, knowing that as we work on ourselves, our paths will align and our reunion will manifest. Trusting in the process allows us to honor our own healing journey while giving our twin flame the necessary space to embark on their own transformative path.

By trusting in the Divine’s guidance, we relinquish control and surrender to the natural flow of the twin flame journey. This trust not only strengthens our connection but also allows us to embrace the present moment and focus on our personal growth.

As we work on ourselves individually, we maintain a steadfast belief that the union we seek will come to fruition as a result of our collective efforts and spiritual evolution. We approach this journey with open hearts, trust in the Divine, and unwavering faith in the power of our love.