11 characteristics of twin flame runner behavior

 Twin Flames are almost like soulmates, with one person being your other half.

They are someone who has been there in another life and is destined to find again.

But finding a twin flame is not that simple, and even if you do, a twin flame can become terrified of the intensity of the connection and run.

Here are 11 characteristics of twin flame runner behavior:

What is a twin flame runner?

Before we get into the characteristics of a twin flame runner, let’s take a quick look at what a twin flame runner is.

Twin flame runner behavior is when someone who has a twin flame runs away from the experience because of fear.

This could look like this:

• Not wanting to be around you
• Avoiding you
• Blocking you out of their life, or not speaking to you at all
• Always running away from your energy for no reason
• Acting like they don’t know what is happening or that it is not real

What are the characteristics of a twin flame runner?

1) They get distant when you try to talk about your feelings

When one person in a relationship starts sharing their feelings, it can feel like an imposition on the other person.

If you begin to share your feelings with a twin flame, they may suddenly begin to feel uncomfortable and want to push you away.

When you feel a strong connection with someone, it can be scary because it’s unfamiliar and sudden.

It may feel like you’re losing yourself, because your twin flame is going to challenge you to become a better, more evolved version of yourself.

This can be scary, so twin flames often try to distance themselves from you when you start to share your feelings.

The thing is, twin flame connections come on very suddenly and can be incredibly strong.

They can feel like you have found your other half, but if you don’t know what it’s like to be close to someone, they can feel very strong and overwhelming.

This is why twin flames often respond in this way. They’re trying to protect themselves from the intense feeling of connection that they are experiencing.

It’s important to understand that this is not a bad thing, it’s just their way of dealing with the intensity of their connection.

If you notice a partner getting distant whenever you talk about feelings, it’s a sign that they might be a twin flame runner.

2) They make you feel crazy

Twin flame runners can make you feel like you’re going crazy because they are so hard to understand.

It can feel like you’re dating yourself, because you feel such a strong connection to them.

This can cause you to question your sanity, but it’s completely normal.

The thing is, they might make you question your reality because they don’t want to admit to the intensity of the connection.

However, it’s still important to be aware of the fact that they may be making you feel crazy, and to know what you can do about it.

When you’re feeling like you’re losing your mind, find ways to ground yourself and keep yourself calm.

This can help you keep a cool head and not overreact to their confusing behavior.

You can journal, meditate, or do something creative to express your feelings.

This can help you release your emotions so that you don’t feel like you’re going to explode.

3) A gifted advisor confirms it

The points we cover in this article will give you a good idea of whether or not your twin flame is a runner.

But since your situation is unique to you, the best thing you can do is get tailored advice.

That’s why we recommend getting a personalized psychic reading to really address the issues you’re facing.

The key, however, is finding someone trustworthy to speak to.

After a really challenging time in my love life, I found that speaking to an advisor from Psychic Source gave me the strength and motivation to get my life back on track.

The advisor I spoke to was kind, understanding of my situation, and genuinely helpful.

My love reading shed light on my situation in a way I wasn’t able to see on my own, and I was finally able to clear my head and heal my heart.

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Not only can a gifted advisor tell you whether your twin flame is a runner, but they can reveal all your future love possibilities.

4) They are afraid of intimacy

Twin flame runners are afraid of intimacy because they’ve never experienced it to this extent before.

They’ve lived their lives completely alone and without any deep connection to another person.

Even if they had a connection, it was nowhere near as intense as your connection with them is.

They don’t know how to relate to you on a deep level because they’ve never had any practice.

They don’t know what to do when you cry, how to comfort you, or how to stay in a relationship with you when you want to talk about your feelings.

When you get into a relationship with a twin flame runner, you’re going to have to be patient with them and allow them time to learn how to be in a relationship.

You can’t expect them to know how to do everything right away.

Trust me, I know it’s frustrating if your partner is terrified of intimacy, but it will be okay.

At some point, your twin will get over his/her fear of intimacy and be ready to be in a relationship with you.

It may take some time, but it will happen.

5) They want to keep you in a friend zone

Twin flame runners want to keep you in a friend zone because they’re terrified of intimacy.

They want to stay casual so that they don’t have to deal with the fact that you two are meant to be together.

Simply put, they want to keep you as a friend so that they don’t have to deal with your feelings and emotions, as well as their own.

They don’t want to become too close to you because they’re afraid that you’ll discover their secret.

Friend zones are dangerous because they allow someone to stay in your life but prevent you from getting too close to them.

A friend zone is often not even something that is conscious; it’s just something that happens naturally because twin flame runners want to keep you at a distance.

Now: if you find yourself in the friend zone, it can be really frustrating, but this barrier of safety is exactly what the twin flame runner might need at that moment.

It’s important to keep in mind that they’re not trying to hurt you.

They’re just doing things so that they don’t have to deal with you and your feelings.

They may be doing this because they are too scared of intimacy, or because they might be ashamed of their feelings for you.

Either way, it’s important to understand why the twin flame runner is acting this way.

6) They require constant validation

Twin flame runners require constant validation because they’re trying to make themselves feel better.

They want to feel special and worthy of being in your life.

They don’t see themselves as worthy of the time and attention you’re giving them, so they try to make up for it by constantly asking for your approval.

A twin flame runner is overwhelmed with the connection, so they might at first be terrified of not being good enough for you.

You see, they may ask you on a daily basis if they look good, or if they did a good job with something.

They may also ask you if they’re good enough for you, or if they can stay in your life.

They may seem insecure and needy, but they’re just trying to get as much validation from you as possible.

When you’re in a relationship with a twin flame, it’s important to not only give them positive feedback, but also to be aware of the negative feedback you might be sending.

Now: you might still end up being left by a twin flame runner, even though they are the ones who need so much validation, but that’s just the irony of it all.

7) They only care about their own needs

Twin flame runners care about their own needs above all else.

They don’t care if they’re hurting you because they’re only focused on getting what they want.

They want to spend every moment with you, no matter how hard you have to work to be with them.

You see, they want to do everything with you, and they don’t care if it inconveniences you.

They have no respect for your time or your emotions.

They don’t care if they’re hurting you, and they don’t care if they’re keeping you from having time to yourself.

They only care about what they want and getting it as quickly as possible.

Twin flame runners are so consumed with their own thoughts and problems that they might not care about you too much at that moment.

That’s why I recommend getting a personalized reading from one of the gifted advisors over at Psychic Source.

I mentioned them earlier.

They’ve been a great source of comfort and guidance when I’ve faced issues in my love life, and their specialist advisers are well trained in the area of twin flames.

So, what are you waiting for?

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8) Their words don’t match their actions

Twin flame runners are notorious for promising you things and then never following through.

They can make you feel like you have a future with them, only to back out of anything serious.

You may think that you two are in a relationship, only to discover that they never intended to be serious.

Their words don’t match their actions because they’re scared to make a commitment to you.

They want to keep everything casual and easy so that they don’t have to deal with the fact that you two are meant to be together.

You see, twin flame runners think that if they talk about being with you, but never actually do anything about it, then it won’t become real.

But you deserve better than this, and you deserve to be with someone who is ready to make a commitment to you.

Twin flame runners might eventually come around and be ready to commit to you, but until then, you’re better off without them.

9) They have a fear of intimacy and commitment

Twin flame runners have a fear of intimacy and commitment because they’ve never experienced it before.

They’ve lived alone their entire lives, and they don’t know how to be in a relationship, especially not one that is so intense.

When you get into a relationship with a twin flame, they’re going to look at you like you’re a stranger.

They don’t know how to relate to you on a deep level because they’ve never had any practice.

They don’t know what to do when you cry, how to comfort you, or how to stay in a relationship with you when you want to talk about your feelings.

When you get into a relationship with a twin flame runner, you’re going to have to be patient with them and allow them time to learn how to be in a relationship.

They might shy away from any kind of deep connection because they’re afraid of getting hurt.

They don’t want to get too close to anyone because they’re afraid that they’ll lose you, and they don’t know how to make it work with someone that is a lot more intense than them.

Twin flame runners are so scared of commitment that they often avoid it altogether.

They don’t know how to be in a relationship, so they run from it instead of getting into one.

Because twin flame runners are so afraid of being in a relationship, you might find yourself feeling resentful at times.

But don’t worry, you are not alone with your feelings, and you’re not the only one who feels this way.

Twin flame runners are scared of commitment because they’ve never experienced it before.

This makes it difficult for twin flame chasers, but you know, it will get better eventually.

10) They can be mean for no reason

Twin flame runners can be mean for no reason because they have no understanding of what the word “consideration” means.

They’re so focused on getting what they want and taking care of themselves that they don’t care if they hurt you in the process.

When you get into a relationship with a twin flame runner, you can expect that they won’t care about your feelings.

They don’t know what consideration is, so they have no idea that they’re hurting you.

And sometimes, they might even hurt you on purpose because your connection baffles them so much that they don’t know how else to act.

You may have to set boundaries with them to let them know that their behavior is unacceptable.

You can’t let someone bully you or treat you badly just because they’re scared of intimacy and commitment.

When you feel like you’re being treated unfairly, it can be helpful to look at the situation from your twin flame’s perspective.

You can ask yourself, “Why would they be treating me this way?” If you can find a reason for their behavior, it may help you to not take it personally.

Trust me, even though they are your twin flame doesn’t mean you need to let them walk all over you and treat you like crap!

11) They are terrified of commitment but also want to stay

Twin flame runners want to stay with you, but they’re also scared of being in a relationship with you.

They want to be with you, but they may be terrified of the fact that you two are meant to be together.

You see, they want you to be part of their life, but they don’t necessarily want to be with you because it scares them.

This can be confusing for you, because you may feel like you’re not doing anything wrong to warrant their strange behavior.

But because they’re so afraid of commitment, they have to keep you at a certain distance so that they don’t get too involved with you.

Twin flame runners can’t be in a relationship with you because they’re so afraid of losing themselves and being “taken over.”

Now, usually, this phase doesn’t last forever.

At some point, the twin flame runner will get over their fear of commitment and be ready to be with you.

However, this can take some time for them to work through.

It’s important to stay patient and help them work through their fear of commitment by expressing your love and support in other ways.

The good thing is that they will eventually get over the fear of commitment, and they will become ready to be with you.

What now?

Is your twin flame a runner? Reading through these signs might have just given you the confirmation that they are.

But don’t worry – even if they are, there is a chance that they will come around eventually.

Twin flames can be made to run in a relationship and they can be made to stick around for the long haul.

I hope this article helped you to understand what it means if your twin flame is a runner, and I hope that you’ll find the strength to deal with it!

Hopefully, you should now have a good idea of twin flame runner behavior. But if you’d still like to get more clarity on the situation, speaking to a gifted advisor is the best way to go.

I mentioned Psychic Source earlier. Based on my own personal experience with them, I know they’re the real deal. Their advisors are kind and genuinely helpful.

So, if you really want to get to the bottom of whether you are dealing with a twin flame runner, get in touch with an advisor and take your future into your own hands. I did, and it changed my life.

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