Twin Flames Separation – The Runner And The Chaser

What occurs during the separation of twin flames?

The pain of losing your twin flame is undoubtedly a familiar feeling. Whether you were the one who ran or the one left chasing, it’s likely you’re currently experiencing a sense of confusion, loss, and profound heartbreak.

You might be questioning how someone could have the power to hurt you so deeply. It’s as if you were immersed in their energy, swept away by a wave that completely overwhelmed you, knocking you off your feet.

Remember, you are not alone. Many others are going through the same experience, while some will never comprehend the depths of your current situation. Unless they have personally undergone such a journey, understanding may elude them.

As someone who has personally traversed this path, I can offer nothing but personal experiences and insights to share with others. In this article, we will delve into the phases of the Runner and Chaser during twin flame separation. Assuming you have already met your twin, experienced the enchanting bubble love phase, and now find yourself in the aftermath of its bursting, leaving you emotionally shattered.

Following a twin flame separation, the symptoms experienced differ greatly from those of a typical breakup.

These symptoms can manifest as severe insomnia, unexplained heart or chest pain, irrational thoughts leading to a state of psychosis, and unpredictable, obsessive behavior. It feels as though you have lost control of your own mind.

The pain runs so deep that it becomes overwhelming, making it seemingly impossible to embrace and heal from. The separation is an immense burden to bear. It can bring you to your knees, and interestingly, that is part of its purpose. It calls for surrender—to surrender to the pain, to surrender to the suffering, and most importantly, to surrender to yourself.

The Runner and the Chaser

Following a twin flame separation, it is common to identify oneself with a specific role. If your twin flame was the one who walked away, you see yourself as the chaser. Conversely, if you were the one who initiated the separation, you view yourself as the runner.

The dynamic between the chaser and the runner continues, with the chaser persistently pursuing and the runner evading. This push-pull cycle mirrors their actions. The chaser exhausts all efforts to reignite the flame but eventually reaches a point of surrender, recognizing the irrationality of their behavior.

Upon this surrender, the chaser realizes that they were, in fact, the runner all along. It may be confusing to comprehend this shift in perspective, but it is an important realization on the twin flame journey.

You see twins are a mirror image of each other, your twin flame is you.

When you chase after your twin flame, you are actually chasing after an attachment. It is the idea of what love should be, the fairy tale you have constructed in your mind. You attempt to grasp onto something that cannot be held. Love, like water, can only flow through—it cannot be contained. So, in all your chasing, you eventually realize that you were actually running away from yourself.

By chasing your twin, you are, in essence, running from your own self. It’s a literal running away from yourself and, consequently, from your twin. Therefore, it becomes clear that as long as both the runner and the chaser are in a state of running, it is impossible for them to be together.

This understanding leads us to a crucial realization: your twin flame is, in fact, a reflection of yourself. Thus, in order for a union to be possible, both individuals must cease running and face their own inner selves. Only then can they come together in a harmonious and balanced union.

What to do? Let go.

In the absence of emotion, judgment, and expectation, love remains. It exists in the stillness of the soul, free from action, attachment, or need. Love is the gentle energy that permeates all of existence. It transcends individual existence, guiding us towards ascension. Love is the symphony that harmonizes the universe—it is the essence of all that is.

Within this stillness, a profound understanding emerges: you are merely a vessel, and the vessel itself is illusory. The ultimate truth lies in the oneness of love.