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8 reasons a twin flame runner reaches out (and how to respond)

Twin flame relationships can be both beautiful and intense. In fact, sometimes they’re too intense and one of the twin flames chickens out and runs.

If your twin flame wasn’t ready for the relationship and you were, you probably tried hard to convince them to stay. That makes you the chaser and them the runner.

No matter how hard you chased them, they left and you’ve been going through a very difficult period known as “Twin flame separation.”

But now, your twin has reached out and you’re wondering what it could mean and how you should respond.

Let’s dig in:

1) They’re testing the waters to see if you still have feelings for them

When your twin flame leaves you, it’s the worst rejection of your life.

Now, maybe your relationship had been rocky for a while, but – so what? Twin flame relationships aren’t supposed to be easy.

You tried so hard to make it work and for them to stay. And yet, despite all your efforts, they went ahead and left you.

You were obsessed with them leaving and for the longest time, couldn’t accept that it was over. You kept calling and leaving messages on their phone, begging them to come back.

You felt heartbroken. You thought they didn’t love you anymore. You didn’t know if you’d ever see them again.

Now, out of the blue, they’re reaching out to you.

But why? What do they want?

You don’t dare get your hopes up, I’ve been there.

The fact that they’re reaching out is a very good sign! It means that they’re curious to find out whether or not you still love them. They want to see if you’ll respond to them.

You might be so deep in your own suffering that you don’t even know what you’re feeling.

And I get it, it’s not right that they left you. But they are your twin flame after all, and whether we like it or not, twin flame separation is very common.

Deep down you know you still love them.

My advice is to take it slow and not get carried away. Be sure that they’re really ready to be with you now. You don’t want to end up getting hurt again.

Respond to them, be friendly but not too eager. See what they do next.

2) They want to check on you and see how you’re doing

When twin flames break up it’s worse than any other kind of breakup. Twin flame separation is so intense that it tears you up inside.

Even though it’s been a while, you’re probably still very fragile.

But so are they. You may not think that they’re having a hard time because they’re the ones who left you, but they’re hurting as much as you are.

Even though they weren’t ready for the relationship, they still care about you. That’s why they’re reaching out, they want to check up on you and make sure you’re okay.

They feel bad for leaving and want to make sure you don’t need help and that you’re not hanging on by a thread.

You might be so invested in your own misery that you aren’t taking care of yourself.

Maybe you’re not getting enough sleep. Maybe you’re not eating right.

You’re too busy feeling sorry for yourself that you’re neglecting your well-being. Your twin knows this. They can feel it.

They’re worried about you. They want to make sure you’re okay, so they can put their minds at rest.

Take it as a good sign. Even if they’re not yet ready for a reunion, the fact that they’re checking up on you means that they care about you and that’s a huge deal and a good step in the right direction.

Tell them that you’ll take better care of yourself and that it’s nice to hear from them.

3) They missed you too much and couldn’t take it anymore

Twin flame runners run because they’re scared.

They’re scared of commitment. They’re scared of getting too attached to someone. They’re scared of facing themselves.

But after a while without you, they miss you so much that they can’t take it any longer.

They realize that being without you is scarier than what they were running away from. They needed some time away from you to realize how much they need you in their life.

So if your twin is trying to get in touch, it’s quite possible that they’ve realized what a mistake leaving you was and that they want to come back.

I think you should hear them out and see what they have to say, but I know it’s not always easy to talk to someone who hurt you so much.

I mean, what if they hurt you some more? What if they’re not coming back and they’re getting in touch for some stupid reason – like they can’t find an old book and want to know if you have it?

If you feel like you can’t face them, it’s a good idea to speak to a gifted advisor about the situation.

You see, they could give you some insight into why your twin flame runner is getting in touch with you. Are they ready to come back? Will they hurt you again? Can you trust them?

If you’ve never spoken to a psychic before and don’t know where to start – don’t worry, I know where you can find the real deal – Psychic Source.

Over the years I’ve spoken to many different psychics, in person and online, and more than half of them were fakes.

Over the last year or so I’ve been using Psychic Source and they haven’t let me down once, that’s why I can recommend them.

Not only are they super insightful, but they’re also very kind and understanding. I always feel like a huge weight has been lifted from my shoulders whenever I speak to them.

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4) They want to apologize and make amends

If your twin flame left you because of a misunderstanding or a fight, they might be reaching out because they want to apologize.

They want to make amends and make sure that you understand why they left.

  • Maybe they left because they thought you pushed them away
  • Maybe they left because they were afraid of the intensity of the relationship
  • Maybe they left because they thought you didn’t want or need them

Whatever it is, they want to apologize and make amends because they know they were wrong. They’ve realized that they made a mistake and they want to fix it.

They’re hoping that you’ll accept their apology. They’re ready to do whatever it takes to make up for the hurt they caused you.

Let them make it up to you. Let them earn your trust again.

5) They still have strong feelings for you

If your twin flame left you because they didn’t love you, they’d have no reason to reach out to you now. Right?

But if they’ve been in touch, it’s because they still have feelings for you.

There are so many reasons why twin flame runners run:

  • They might have left because they don’t think the relationship is going anywhere
  • They might have left because they’re not ready for a commitment
  • They might have left because they’re afraid of being in a relationship
  • They might have left because they don’t know how to love someone
  • They might have left because they’re scared of commitment
  • They might have left because they think love is dangerous

These are all reasons why a twin might have left, but the fact that they’re reaching out to you in spite of all the things that scared them before, goes to show how deep their feelings for you are.

Hear what they have to say. Go with your gut.

6) They’re suffering too much without you

Twin flames feel things very deeply and are very sensitive.

When they love, they love intensely.

Leaving you was probably the hardest thing your twin flame ever did. And now they see it.

They’re suffering without you in their life. They’re probably in so much pain that they can’t think straight.

They can’t function normally – they can’t focus on work, they can’t eat, they can’t sleep, and they’re not interested in doing anything.

They feel drained of energy. They thought that they needed to get away from your relationship and now they’re realizing what a mistake it was.

Think about how much you’ve suffered – well, they feel the same way. Forgive them.

7) They regret hurting you

Your twin flame runner might be reaching out because they regret hurting you.

This doesn’t necessarily mean that they’re ready to come back. It does however show you that they care about you.

Maybe they have to deal with some stuff and they need to grow as a person before they’re ready to be reunited, but that doesn’t mean that they don’t love you.

Being in a twin flame relationship can be scary and overwhelming because of the significance of such a relationship.

So they ran and hurt you in the process. Now they feel like cr*p for the pain they caused you.

Take comfort in knowing that they love you and that you’ll be reunited when the time is right – because that is the destiny of twin flames.

But wait, how can you be 100% sure that they’re your twin flame?

What if you keep waiting for them to come back and it turns out they were a false twin flame and you just wasted your time?

It’s been known to happen.

Well, there’s one way to find out. There’s a professional psychic artist who can do a sketch of what your twin flame looks like.

I know what you’re thinking: Sounds too good to be true! Well, that’s what I thought when my friend told me about the artist, but we were at a party and I was a little tipsy and I thought, what the heck, I’ll give it a try.

Obviously, I was only having some fun and didn’t expect anything. I was speechless when I got my sketch and saw a picture of my fiancé!

So if you want to make sure that your runner really is your twin flame and that you’re not wasting your time waiting for them to come back, get your own sketch drawn here.

8) They’re ready

Something has changed and your twin flame runner finally feels ready to be reunited with you.

Maybe they had to learn something about themselves in order to come back. Maybe they had to realize how scary and empty life was without you in it.

Whatever it was that needed to happen has happened and they want to come back to you, that’s why they’re reaching out.

The question is: are you ready to take them back?

How do you feel at the prospect of being reunited with your twin? Are you happy? Are you surprised? Is it a good time?

You need to do what’s right for you. If they’ve decided to come back at a bad time, then it’s their turn to wait.

Sometimes the runner becomes the chaser and the chaser becomes the runner.

The bottom line is that if you’re not ready to be with them, it’s ok to make them wait. And if you’re ready to be reunited, then I wish you all the happiness.

Signs you’re about to reunite with your twin flame

The twin flame connection is a magical, once-in-a-lifetime experience. If you’re fortunate enough to find your twin flame, you’ll experience an amazing love that is unlike any other relationship you’ve had before.

But as you’ve learned firsthand, not everyone who finds their twin flame ends up staying with them forever and living happily ever after.

Sometimes trust issues, fear of commitment, distance, or other factors get in the way of things moving forward, causing the relationship to end prematurely.

Luckily, it’s possible for those same people to reunite again one day.

So if your twin flame has reached out recently, look out for some other signs that twin flame reunion is near.

1) You feel a strong urge to be with them

One of the first signs that you’re getting closer to your twin flame again is that you’ll feel a strong urge to be with them.

It’s likely that you’ll find yourself thinking about them often, and when you do, you’ll feel a strong urge to be with them.

You might be performing a task at work or just going about your day-to-day business when suddenly, out of nowhere, you feel like you absolutely have to see them again.

If your twin flame runner has recently reached out to you, then this is a good opportunity to reconnect. Make a date to have some coffee and talk to them.

2) You feel an inexplicable sensation in your stomach or chest

A heightened awareness and sensitivity is pretty common once you’ve re-established contact and reunion is near.

If your twin flame runner has reached out because they’re ready to come back, you’ll likely feel it in your stomach and chest right away, almost like a fluttering sensation.

I had butterflies in my stomach and I couldn’t eat for days.

This sensation isn’t just a random feeling, though. It’s a sign that your twin’s energy is flowing into you, which means that you’re intuitively connecting with them on a higher level. This is a sign that your twin flame connection hasn’t gone away.

You might even experience this sensation in other areas of your body, like your head, back or arms.

3) You feel a strong connection while meditating or praying

Do you remember what being around your twin flame is like? You know that the connection you share isn’t something that you can easily turn off or control.

It doesn’t matter what you’re doing or how busy you are, when a twin flame reunion is near, your twin flame connection will find a way to grab your attention and get you thinking about them.

You’ll most likely feel the connection when you’re trying to meditate or pray. Suddenly, you’ll have a strong urge to call your twin, text them, or even visit them, even though you’re in the middle of something.

That’s the universe’s way of telling you that you are supposed to be reunited with your twin flame, so don’t ignore the signs.

4) You’ve had vivid dreams about your twin flame lately

If you’ve been separated from your twin flame for a while and you’ve recently started having recurring dreams about them that feel real, it’s a good sign.

Of course, you could be dreaming about them because you miss them, but if you recognize any other signs from this list, these vivid dreams could be a sign from the universe telling you that your twin flame reunion is near.

Now, I’m no dream expert, but I know that you can find several psychics who specialize in dream interpretation at Psychic Source.

If your twin flame has reached out and you keep dreaming about them, I recommend getting in touch with one of their psychics to discuss your dream and see if you really are about to be reunited with your twin.

So what are you waiting for? Get a personalized dream interpretation now.

5) Your intuition is telling you that everything is going to be alright

If you’ve recently reconnected with your twin flame, you might notice that your intuition is stronger than ever before, which is a sign that everything is going to be alright.

If you’re having doubts about getting reunited with your twin, your intuition will tell you that things will be just fine, in the end, so don’t worry. Trust your gut.

6) You’re constantly reminded of your ex by smells, places, or things

When twin flame reunion is near, you’ll notice that you are attracted to certain scents, places, sounds, or items that remind you of your ex, like a certain type of cologne, clothing, or a song.

This can be a confusing and frustrating experience, especially if you still have unresolved issues with your ex.

However, this experience is actually a good thing and means that your twin flame connection hasn’t gone away. It’s just been sleeping, waiting to be reawakened again.

These experiences are known as synchronicities, which are coincidences that have meaning behind them.

7) You’ll start doing the things you used to love doing with your ex

Finally, when reunion is near you might start doing the things you used to love doing with your twin while you were dating, like going to certain places, eating certain foods, or watching certain movies that you both loved.

This is a sign that soon, you’ll be rekindling your twin flame connection and doing those things with them again.

So if your twin flame has reached out and you’ve noticed one or more of the signs that I describe above, then be sure that you’re about to be with your twin flame once more.

And I know from my own experience that as eager as you may be for a reunion, things don’t always go smoothly. My twin flame was the runner in our relationship and I couldn’t wait for him to come back.

However, when we were reunited I was angry at him for having left me. What helped me was talking to a gifted advisor from Psychic Source. They were really there for me and guided me through our reunion. They explained why my twin had left and helped me forgive and forget.

So if you have any questions about your twin flame reunion, don’t hesitate to get in touch with them.

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Infinity Kelly

Infinity Kelly(she/her) is a freelance writer and astrologer who covers news, lifestyle, and entertainment topics, including astrology and relationships. She regularly contributes to elitedaily, Wooman’s Day, and YouGov, among other publications. When she’s not working, you can find her running, traveling, or scrolling TikTok. Follow her on Twitter.

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